Femdom Relationship

Femdom relationship between submissive men and dominant women is the core idea used to create this website. Even with thousands of best female supremacy photo galleries and dominant woman videos, there is yet no article about the essence of a female-led relationship. Well, at least until now. In the previous period, I did extensive research on the subject of female dominance and female leadership and collected info from some of the most valuable resources of female domination.

You are about to learn a lot of important info about female authority, feminine power, and power exchange. Besides various opinions about femdom relationship roots, the article will guide you deeper into the kinky world of femdom by providing links to relevant examples and various models of femdom torture and humiliation of men. So let’s begin. 

Femdom Relationship explained

femdom relationshipThere so many things to say about this subject and frankly, I am not sure which one should come first. So let’s start spontaneously by explaining that not every Mistress is expecting the same when talking about the female led relationship. Basically, it is similar like with family relationships (people having different expectations), although simpler because in our case, there is only one side that is deciding and that is a woman. The main and most important division is by how Dommes are defining a real-life female supremacy relationship.

The first group believes that for a good relationship with a submissive man is enough that he is always at her disposal, whenever she calls him to come or simply do something that a Mistress wants from him (serve in every possible way). 

The second group is those dominant women believing that only 24/7 and full and absolute servitude can be considered as a satisfactory fem dom relationship. In reality, it is much harder to live this way because to get there-there are some other things that should be satisfied. The most important one is to have property (house or apartment) big enough to accommodate slaves non-stop. Within this type of femdom life, it is crucial that slaves have their own place where they can be locked if a Mistress wants to be alone at that moment. Still, there are many places around the globe meeting these criteria. Some of the most famous is the English Mansion, a place of neverending cruel femdom debauchery and the Other World Kingdom known as O.W.K., a matriarchy micronation with its own currency, rules, and laws. 

What are the main characteristics of femdom relationship?

Besides obvious and default female supremacy and clearly defined connection between women and men, the main characteristic is that a guy will have to give up on his own needs. No matter what they are, his Goddess and an owner will always be in the first place. That includes even basic things like food and water but also sexual needs and instincts. For anyone with an experience of being locked inside a chastity device for a long time, you know how terrible this can be.

On top of this, serving a dominant wife, a cruel girlfriend or a Mistress implies that a submissive guy (a sub) won’t have a right to vote on any subject and must act like a person without own opinion constantly showing respect toward dominant partner.

What’s the difference between submissive and nonsubmissive man?

Although everyone will agree that every man can be forced to serve if enough force, pain, and humiliation are applied, there are two basic types of men. The first one is the one not into femdom by their nature, while the other ones are people who are submissive since the first moment they became aware of their sexuality.

Without getting into the roots and psychological and sociological reasons, mental satisfaction a submissive man receives is different from a man that isn’t submissive. A special state of consciousness of a sub is about cerebral gratification which leads to sexual arousal.

It is up to the Mistress to choose what kind of man they want to use for slave training. Some Dommes simply love to feel resistance from their servant while some are more into getting what they want without any kind of opposition.

What kind of scenarios slaves should expect?

If you had a chance to find out more about most popular femdom fetishes then you will know that in long term relationships, an average slave will face probably almost all of them. Usually, in the beginning, things are starting with easier stuff like femdom teasing or foot worship and then gradually becoming more and more difficult. Below are some of the links to the examples of different female supremacy scenarios where you will get a better idea about female-dominated lifestyle.

Femdom sissy training#1 – FEMDOM SISSFICATION: This method of humiliation is also known as forced feminization. Basically, this is a process where a Dominatrix will make a slave act and behave like the real sissy slut. This includes wearing female clothes, moving like a girl, doing house jobs and at the end, be an obedient whore. The last one means that as in every sexual intercourse, he will have to be penetrated with a strapon dildo or a big butt plug.

 

tan stockings sniffing and worship#2 – FOOT FETISH WORSHIP: Getting feet served and massaged is always a relaxing experience, especially after a long day in high heels or sexy leather boots. This is where slaves come handy. The usual task for the foot slave is to use tongue and his hands and to make his Mistress feel better. Sometimes, Goddess enjoys just watching slaves while he is sniffing their stinky or sweaty feet.

 

top rated facesitting pics#3 – FACESITTING AND SMOTHERING: It doesn’t matter if the goal is oxygen deprivation or simply ass worship. Sitting on the slave’s face can be done without having a need for special tools or objects. This method of female domination is often used for quick domination in public or semi-public places like restaurant toilets but it can also be used for long and humiliating sessions.

 

wife OTK spanking photos#4 – SPANKING AND CANING: One of the oldest methods of sexual domination and erotic humiliation. Having a slave spanked over the knee is one of those methods where a Dominatrix doesn’t need any kind of special tools to do it. A bare hand and a strong will to punish are enough but If a Mistress has a cane or a leather paddle at her disposal, then we are talking about some serious stuff.

 

harsh balls kicking#5 – BALLBUSTING: Extreme sensation men are felling after being kicked in the balls is something that is simply impossible to describe with words. You have to try it to understand the implications coming from this type of genitals torture. It is a very popular way of BDSM torture because of the extraordinary combination of simplicity and effects ballbusting creates. Simply speaking, when a Mistress kicks a slave in his balls, he can instantly fall to the ground because of the amount of the sudden pain his brain receptors are receiving.

 

interracial pegging sex#6 – STRAPON: Strapon domination also known as pegging is one of the most widespread femdom torture methods. Being anally penetrated will leave not only physical but also mental consequences on the slave. Fucking slave with a big strap on is often combined with other forms of female cruelty and humiliation. A good example is this related video of harsh anal strapon sex Dominatrix Lady Asmondena and her pathetic strapon sissy fuck hole forced to get it like a real bitch!

 

hardcore femdom genitals torture#6 – COCK AND BALLS TORTURE: probably the most extreme femdom variation, this is something Goddesses are practicing when they want to seriously fuck up their slave. Extensive pain and long term consequences are the main features of this brutal femdom method. This specific fetish BDSM kink can be done in different ways by combining various tools made for this purpose. Some of the popular are violet wand cock torture, cock trampling (when a Mistress is stranding in slave’s dick), extreme cock needling, and some other forms of really painful penis torture like electro cock torture.

These are some of the basic things submissive guys will encounter within fem dom relationship but there are much more to explore. For example, my suggestion is to learn more and find out what is cuckold relationship and how slaves have subjected to horrifying brainfucking and mental devastation without even being touched by their female owner. Also, do not forget to check out other categories here on Femdom Destiny, like more and more popular trampling foot domination or forced bisex humiliation. Getting through all these categories will help slaves embracing the female-dominated relationships in the best possible way. 

How women can recognize a potential candidate for a femdom slave?

From the perspective of a dominant Lady, it is crucial to be able to recognize the adequate person that could potentially become a good servant or maybe even a husband. To do so, experienced Goddesses are having small tricks they are using to notice adequate candidate for a long-lasting BDSM relationship. Below is the list of things which will not go unnoticed by a Goddess looking for a submissive guy she will let into emotional relationship with her.

  1. When a guy stares uncontrollably and concentrating his look on sexy fetish details like fishnets, high heels, stockings, latex, etc.
  2. If he is the type of person willing to help to do all the chores around the house.
  3. If a man is very attentive to Mistress’s health and body. He often asks how she feels and offers to give a body massage or some kind of help.
  4. If he is not hesitating to do ordinary small things like doing laundry, going shopping or picking up clothes from the dry cleaners during work hours, etc.
  5. If it is easy to make him horny by ordinary things or just by gently touching him “accidentally”.
  6. If a man is very polite, courteous, and respectful.
  7. If he is not interrupting Mistress when she is talking or doing her own things. 

These are some of the basic signs promising happy femdom relationship. The slave doesn’t have to show every of mentioned, but at least three from the list above are mandatory.

How to introduce a husband or a boyfriend to femdom?

So once a dominant female pick guy she believes will be suitable for long term servitude, the real question is what is the best way to present him idea about femdom relationship. Of course, this section is talking about nonprofessional Mistresses but ordinary women learning and experimenting with female supremacy. Pro Dommes don’t need this type of advice and relationship guide because they know very well what and when to do.

So, there are only two ways of achieving this. The first one is simple and effective and it takes a direct approach. Simply speaking, a woman craving to dominate man will propose a long lasting relationship that sometimes will involve a contract between a Dominatrix and a slave. This might sound shocking to men especially if they were not aware of the dominant nature of their partners if they were already romantically involved.

The other way is through a smart femdom teasing and erotic seduction.  It takes some time but this is a solid approach if a girl is uncertain about the results of the previously mentioned. There are no men that will stay immune to a well-dressed woman with a self-confident attitude.

It is up to the Mistress to make an assessment and choose which one of those two directions she will choose to build a lasting BDSM relationship.

When a mistress will be satisfied with the relationship?

The ideal scenario when a this type of relationship can be considered successful and satisfactory is the one where Mistress broken slave to the point that he is almost hypnotized. This is a stage where there is no any kind of resistance and where a submissive guy will use the last atom of his strength to please his Goddess. Ideally, this will involve all of the slave’s assets to be at Domme’s disposal. This included his wallet and money, too. Basically, at this time guy will become a money slave and Mistress will be a money domme. You can learn more about money domination by clicking here

What slaves should expect?

This is more like the trick question because slaves are the last ones in the world that should expect anything except humiliation and pain. The real question is, how a Mistress will achieve to make them feel miserable and servile? This is where a personal taste will kick in and every Domme will decide on her own what kind of methods and tools she will use to train her slave(s). Still, there are some things that every submissive guy will face eventually.

  • Goddess is expecting to always treat her with absolute respect.
  • The slave will speak only and if a Mistress tells him to do it.
  • Hard physical work is a normal thing so a good physical condition is mandatory.
  • Don’t think Goddess will give in very easily either, she will be persistent and insistent.
  • Domme is expecting from a sub to always respond with a loud Yes and that is the only answer that she will accept.
  • Don’t expect A goddess to be gentle with your pathetic feelings, that just isn’t in her nature. 
  • Always be aware that you are easily replaceable with some other miserable guy like you.
  • Having a femdom relationship is a privilege, a huge one!

What a slave should do if he has thin or no experience?

Well, this is a common question and it will always be up to date. Just like every other important thing in life, there is a first time for everything. Normally, submissive guys are usually in a panic when they are about to get their first femdom experience. This is understandable because if they suck and show there is no potential in them, their favorite Mistress will ban them forever and will never give them a chance to serve again. So is there a way to at least increase the chance for a successful outcome and somehow prepare for a real life servitude?

Thanks to the modern technologies, luckily there it is a way to practice your femdom relationship skills before you get involved in the real-life domination or maybe even a sadistic femdom marriage. So how to do that? 

Check out a website where you will learn more about femdom cams and online slave training and find out where to find a live cam Mistresses. The main advantage of live femdom webcams is an opportunity to experiment with your own sexuality and fetishism, without having to worry about your performance. There are dozens of live Mistresses always available, more than enough to get your first femdom relationship experience. My advice would be to spend at least 10 or more hours before you get a better feeling and idea how does it really feel to serve a Dominant lady. Once you are through this type of online femdom training, there is a final step left and that is to find and meet a dominant woman in person!

Where to find a real Mistress?

Except if you already are familiar with a location of some of the secret femdom dungeons in your area where you can serve a Dominatrix, there is one more way how you can easily find dominant women in your area. Click here to check out a huge database of Mistresses near your location looking for new slaves at this moment. Expect to be surprised how many kinky dominant women are actually there in your vicinity. Finally, this is a real deal and the ultimate goal for every slave reading this guide to female dominance.

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