Femdom – All You Will Ever Need To Know

Femdom Destiny is sick n tired of porn tube websites popping up first when people are looking for such sensitive material as female supremacy. Not that femdom porn videos are bad, but none of these websites are giving the real picture and an explanation to a question what is femdom? We need to think about young slaves and women just getting into the kinky world of female dominance.

Because of this, you are now looking at the most extensive explanation that you will ever find online covering all aspects of female domination and that means history, present and the future. Prepare yourself to find everything you always wanted to know about femdom but you were afraid to ask.

                                                                              

HISTORY OF FEMDOM

Strange, but what most of the people into female domination are not aware is that female dominance is much older than they think. Even if the 20 and 21st century is the age where women started getting their rights to vote, serve military and fight for advancement in modern society, it is totally wrong to believe that upgrowth of female domination started recently.

On the contrary, many societies through history were based on the power of women. This type of social system is called Matriarchy. If you are into studying of world history, you already know that archaic matriarchy is registered in prehistory. There is a vast number of scientific works and books covering this subject. In short, societies, where  women rule and control everything, is registered through history in Europe( record about nations of Sirones had the women as the ruling sex), Asia (Burma and Kayan people), China (Mosuo culture near Tibet),India (Manipur society), Indonesia (Minangkabau people), or Vietnam.

FemdomHowever, there are no precise records about the sexual lives of people that lived in such societies so we will have to guess based on the scarce information. When mentioning China, I was pleasantly surprised while watching one of the top-ranked history series by Netflix, Marco Polo. The scene where beautiful  Canadian actress of Chinese origin Olivia Cheng is shamelessly pegging one of the most important characters Ahmad (son of the Kublai Khan) left many people breathless. It would be interesting to see how parents explained brutal strapon practice to younger viewers but I guess that’s something that we won’t find out. Anyway, this kind of popularization of female dominance is always welcome. For those wondering in what episode they can see this scene, it is episode 5 in the second serial. Click on the preview photo above to see more screenshots from this epic scene.

Besides precise info and bright examples like that one above, there are many examples of matriarchy in Mythology.  If you do a search online, you will easily find records about Amazons, Celtic myth societies but you will also find some elements in the world famous Greek mythology. History of femdom is a separate field that can be studied separately so let’s move to the next important thing and that is the psychology of female domination.

Luckily, we all live in the world where cameras and recording devices are now widely available so there it is, one vintage femdom gallery to get a better idea how Dommes looked like in the middle of 20th century.

 

VINTAGE FEMDOM PHOTOS

 

PSYCHOLOGY

To make it clear immediately, there is no precise answer what is there behind the psychology of dominant relationship. There are various theories, which is actually good because it is leavening space for every person to recognize himself and find an explanation about this fetish. Some of the most common reasons for being involved in femdom fetish are:

  • As individuals, we continually strive to ‘connect’ with other people and regularly struggle against a deep sense of being isolated. No one truly knows our opinions and emotions. Femdom is two people attempt to ‘connect’ at a very raw level. The Dominatrix ‘recognizes’ the masochist. She ‘prods’ him in a way that he simply can not ignore. The slave is forced to accept her existence. Similarly, the masochist is having attention paid very close to him. He is, in fact, the center of attention. He is also being accepted that way.
  • Living in a violent surrounding (family) with many conflicts and problems will turn a trauma into something erotic. It is a natural way of things for many people. Some therapists are explaining femdom fetish affection this way.
  • Some men need to be guided and they never managed to go over mother-son phase that should be finished at teenage. Being in a femdom relationship is letting them live what they want with a sexual arousal addon.

Ther trick is that there are literally too many views on femdom subject so it is impossible to write them all but one thing is in common and that is total subordinance and servitude of men toward women that is resulting in a pleasure for a Dominatrix and humiliation of a male “partner”.

 

PRESENT DAY AND MODERN FEMDOM

In the modern world, femdom is getting in popularity with each new day. Sites like this one have a goal to promote female domination and related fetishes and make it available to a large number of people. Luckily, there are also many other great femdom websites out there dedicated to various sub-niches and variations of female dominance. In the modern world, femdom supremacy is not a taboo anymore which great.

Being a dominatrix is considered a positive thing even from the perspective of people not involved in domination fetish. How popular it is you will notice on various free porn and paysites that are not femdom in their nature.

Often, some of the top-ranked adult pornstars will jump into the role of a Dominatrix. Some of them are Anissa Kate, Asa Akira, Aiden Starr, Sarah Vandella, Sasha Grey, Chanel Preston, Gia Dimarco, Angela White, Abela Danger and many more famous names. As you noticed at the beginning of this article about femdom, there are great examples of Dominatrices featured in series, movies or magazines. Actually, there are many printed and online magazines exclusively dedicated to dominant women reaching people with this idea with every new day. 

Just as everything else when more and more people get involved, new boundaries are broken. This means that something that would even consider illegal yesterday, can it become perfectly normal today. We are not talking about pis drinking or femdom bondage torture but about some much more serious things like fem dom scat fetish or even genitals castration (still this type of extreme femdom is sometimes resulting in content removal). Whatever that it is your favorite femdom BDSM fetish, we got it covered here on Femdom Destiny, all you need to do is to use search option in the upper right corner.

But let’s back to today’s femdom scene. Besides specialized fem dom sites, online forums and secret chat groups (communities) there is also tons of homemade hot femdom content getting online because of shooting equipment availability. With all those modern mobile phones, webcams and camcorders there is no better time than today where everything is available with a few clicks away. Don’t you agree? This is a good example of domestic female domination session where an “ordinary” girl is destroying slave’s cock and balls while forcing the sub to suck her toes.

Naturally and as you are probably expecting, there is a huge presence of female dominance fetish lovers on almost every important social network today. There is a problem with the new terms of service that are trying to eliminate adult content and prediction is that it will be worse and worse in the future. Still, there are some social networks where it is possible to follow and get a fresh stream of content. For example, take a look at Female Domination Group (you will have to be logged into your google account to be able to follow). But the real beauty of availability and popularization is that it resulted in a special form of art. 


FEMDOM ART

Some of the most famous femdom artists should be mentioned in the sections above because their work is related to the modern days and it is widely available because of technologies we are currently using. Names like Bruce Baker, Gene Bilbrew, Yumine Guo, Rodzo, Etic Stanton, Kimberly Wilder, John Willie, Shiniez or Sardax are some you probably already heard. Probably the oldest and most famous anonymous artist is coming from Japan. Check out Namio Harukawa’s artwork here, this is a special page with most of his work separated by categories. 

As always, a question what is considered an art is always open to a good debate. There is one more form gaining the popularity. Check out supremacy and humiliation captions page where you will find tons of fresh and hot humiliation captions (don’t expect hardcore content there). For an additional stream of a high-quality female domination artwork, you should follow this Google plus page

In case you are more into the writing art instead of visual shown above, check out female dominance stories page and browse through a huge collection of free BDSM and male humiliation stories.

 

COUNTRIES WITH STRONGEST FEMDOM SCENES

Below is the short list of countries having a strong femdom scene. The ranking is based on the proportion of population and number of available websites. What you should know is that O.W.K. is not included on the list because of the specificity of its existence (it is not recognized by any other country but it has its own currency, passports, police force, courts, state flag and state hymn).

  1. United Kingdom
  2. United States of America
  3. Germany
  4. Australia
  5. Canada
  6. Japan
  7. Spain
  8. Italy
  9. France
  10. Brazil

 

TOP RATED DOMINATION FETISHES

As you probably noticed here on Femdom Destiny, there is a pool available where visitors can vote and tell us what are their female supremacy fetishes. Still, this was not enough so the list below contains data collected from the search query of thousands of people visiting the site daily. Femdom subculture gave birth to many new sub-fetishes and micro niches and you can see the list below with a short description and a link to a sample gallery.

Domestic face sitting with a special smothering chair#1 – Facesitting – Sometimes called smothering, queening or kinging is an erotic practice where a dominant female sits on slave’s face. There are several variations, for example, when the slave has to please a Domme by licking her genitals (ass and pussy) or when a slave has to withstand Mistress’s weight while she is abusing him completely dressed (the second method is closely related to CFNM explained below).

Sometimes (but not so often) a special face sitting furniture is used like smotherbox or a queening stool. Reason for the popularity is a fact that a Goddess can smother a slave at any time and any place. Some people are especially turned on when a dominant girl has a big ass.


Amateur pegging from the behind#2 – Femdom Strapon – Simply speaking, this is a method where a female is using a strap-on dildo attached to her hips to perform anal penetration of a submissive male. This practice is not related to gay sexual activities even if this is the first association for people not in this specific sexual fetish.

An alternative name is “pegging” and it is common that a strapon fucker is stimulating male genitalia while penetrating slave’s ass. It is not necessary to have a strapon attached to a female body and less often, you will see scenarios where a woman is pushing a classic dildo or a vibrator inside male’s anus.


Are you a sissy ?#3 – Sissification – The term is coming from a word “sissy” having a pejorative meaning and it is describing an effeminate male being a homosexual or acting like the coward. Being a sissy is symbolizing a sexual deviation and a person opposite to what is considered masculinity.

The process of sissification (also called “forced feminization” or just “feminisation”) is a practice of dressing a submissive man to look like the woman and making him act like the female. The practice often involves additional humiliation methods like above-mentioned strapon sex or verbal humiliation.


cock piercing punishment#4 – Cock and balls torture – The abbreviation for this type of brutal fetish is CBT. The purpose and successfulness of CBT depend on the amount of pain inflicted on the slave and his genitals. It can often end in tremendous pain that will knock out the slave and make him unconscious. 

There is a variety of tools and methods that can be used for this purpose. You can search this site for more and you will find electro cock torture, wax play, cock piercing, genitals beating, urethral play and things like cock trampling. CBT is probably one of the most painful methods of males slaves torture.


more spanking torture#5 – Spanking and caning – Probably the most famous form of a corporal punishment, spanking are practiced as a method that is inflicting pain and bringing humiliation to a spanked person. Erotic spanking usually results in red buttocks but if the punishment is extensive, paddle or a cane will make open bloody wounds or bruises at least, disabling a slave to sit on his butt for a while (days or even weeks).

Experienced Goddesses usually have a variety of different spanking tools that will help them achieve the desired effect. This form of slave disciplining is very popular in England and used at homes and dungeons.


Forced nylons licking#6 – Foot domination – Often called a “footdom”, this is the logical extension of widely popular foot fetish. For many men, female feet or parts or feet like toes and ankles are representing their deepest fetish. Being capable of making men sexually aroused by just exposing them, the next level of this fetish is forcing men to worship their feet.

This most widespread femdom fetish has multiple forms and subcategories like bare feet worship, nylon foot domination, dirty feet licking, stinky feet smelling, toes sucking, etc. it is hard to note all variations because of they are closely related to things like dirty soled licking on long toenails worship.


Double ballbusting outdoord torture photos#7 – Ballbusting – The origin of this CBT sub-niche that became fetish on its own is in Japan. Sometimes you will read about Tamakeri (玉蹴り) which literally means ” balls kicking”. Accepted as one of the most painful torture methods, ball busting is a separate category. There is a scientific explanation why ballbusting is so popular.

After being brutally kicked in the groins, endorphins are immediately released into the body of a victim (slave). They cause the brain to misinterpret this unique pain as pleasure and cause sexual arousal in practitioners. 


Asian dominatrix trampling slave's face#8 – Trampling – Derivate of foot domination, trampling is the method of walking on someone while causing pain and damage to his body. Depending on the Mistress’s preference, different body parts can be trampled. One of the most painful is face trampling but you will also find cock trampling as a specific mix of CBT and trample fetish that can be even more painful if done properly.

Variations are going in the different directions like trampling a slave with high heels (boots, stilettos) or group torture where two or more Goddesses are standing and even jumping all over slave’s body.


Black Goddess Orgasm Denial#9 – Teasing and humiliation – This is the type of a psychological humiliation in order to produce erotic excitement or sexual arousal. Humiliation is a subjective issue and is dependent on context so multiple scenarios are possible including POV (point of view) or group humiliation where more than one Mistress is a humiliating same slave.

This method is considered kind of softcore compared to other more brutal and direct approaches to slaves but can be very effective because it will leave deep psychological marks and impact on a slave’s personality.


Cuckold sex explained#10 – Cuckolding – Being a cuckold can be interpreted in different ways but when it comes to male humiliation is means only one thing. Cuckold is a husband (or a boyfriend) that is aware his wife is cheating on him where he must be present in her sexual activity (infidelity). 

Cuckold slaves are not active and they will never get a sexual satisfaction or a chance to copulate with their wife. At the same time, other make pleasing his wife while the slave is watching will have a chance to additionally humiliation hubby by jizzing on him or inside his mouth.


sexy girls humiliating naked men#11 – CFNM – This is an abbreviation for Clothed Females Naked Males and in most of the cases, CFNM fetish is closely related to teasing and humiliation explained above. But not all scenarios are softcore, some will end in anal violation or ina forced bisex intercourse. 

The most important characteristic besides female being dressed while slave(s) are naked is that there are always at least two girls present in the scene. Usually, quality CFNM scenarios include 5 dominant females, or even more.


Masturbation instructions#12 – Jerk Off Instructions – This is one more soft male humiliation fetish. Shortened, it is named JOI and sometimes called jerk off encouragement (JOE). 

It is mostly POV porn niche where explicit and detailed instructions on how to jerk off are given to a humiliated slave that is accepting control of a female by showing his weakness and letting a Girl control his orgasm and a way how he is masturbating. 


Brutal lesbian corporal punishment#13 –  Lezdom – This is a shortened name for lesbian domination. Basically, all rules like in regular femdom apply except that slave is a female instead of a male. Of course, these kinds of scenarios exclude cock and balls torture, but on the other hand, nipples, big tits, and an vagina torture are always there as a supplement.

Often, Mistresses will combine male and female slaves in the same session. The most common form of lezdom is lesbian foot domination and lezdom spanking.


 

interracial group bisex scene

#14 – Forced Bisex – Forced bi is considered an evolution of fem dom humiliation and eventually it became a totally separate niche. The main characteristic is that a sub is forced into the homosexual sex act with another slave or simply a man featured in the scene.

Usually, forced bi sex is just one part of the bigger picture where any of the above-mentioned torture methods can be used. Most common scenarios are the ones where a sissy slave must behave like the female (and that include oral or anal sex) or when hubby (cuckold slave) must lick and swallow sperm from another guy that just pleased his dominant wife.


Mistress Kiana pegging white slave#15 – Interracial femdom – What makes this genre special and different is the division by races. By default, interracial femdom is considered every scene where a Femdom Mistress is black and her slave is white. But a black slave being fucked up by a white Dominatrix is also a desirable scenario.

Any of the above-mentioned torture and humiliation methods can be applied, there is no limitation. The only important thing is that there are two or more races involved.


Financial domination#16 – Money domination – Not everyone is capable of being involved in financial dom activities. To experience how does it feel to be financially controlled by a brat Dominatrix, you will have to own property and have enough money to please a Moneydom (girl in charge of spending your hard earned money and draining your wallet).

Because of that, there are no many men capable of satisfying girls this way so this is the reason why moneydom isn’t so popular. Still, it is an unavoidable part of deeper and a long-term female dominance relationship.

 

HOW TO GET A REAL FEMDOM EXPERIENCE?

Knowing that becoming a slave boy is a life-changing experience, there are some things you should experience first, before trying to serve a real Dominatrix. You don’t want to get into something that you can’t handle. I am not saying this because of you, but because of the precious time of a Goddess that will expect to be pleased. So the first step in discovering the world of female domination would be to check some of the best male torture sites and learn more about how real life torture looks like. Check out what Mistresses are capable of doing to their servants and decide will you be able to handle all that rage and hardcore misandry.

After spending enough time and checking growing collection of femdom videos and photos, the next logical step is to try to serve a Mistress without leaving your computer. Thanks to the modern technologies, it is now possible to be humiliated on live femdom cams. Maybe it sounds easy but when a mistress orders you to do things like sitting on but plug or squeeze your own balls with some of the sex toys while she is laughing, you will see how wrong were you. Check out live sex dominatrix cams and learn to behave before proceeding to the next step.

Considering that you somehow managed to go through mentioned steps, you should consider yourself close to the goal of meeting a real dominatrix. What you should know that when you try to reach a professional Goddess, most of them will ask you do you have a previous experience in pleasing a woman like a slave. Giving a negative answer will place you on the blacklist, and if you made it this far, this is something you don’t want to happen. So, there is one more thing to be done. You should try femdom dating and meet some real amateur Girls living near to you. You will be shocked how many are there that you would never suspect that they enjoy humiliating and abusing men. Check out this article about the best site for meeting dominant women and persistent until you find someone in your vicinity.

At the and, after you gone through everything above, it is finally a time to show your devotion and meet a professional dominatrix. Luckily, there are many out there so you will be able to choose by your personal taste and preference. Once you do, be humble, polite and respectful when contacting and talking to her. Keep in mind that there are thousands of pathetic slaves like you and that you are easily replaceable with someone that is more cooperative and willing to worship and serve better. A good starting point is a Mistress listing here on site or any of Dominatrix directories available online. Good luck!

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