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INTERVIEW: GODDESS SEVERA

1. When did you first discover your affinity for domination?
I was very young, maybe seven or so, and discovered a twisted poem the classic children's book Mother Goose called, “The Old Woman Who lived in a Shoe”. It goes like this:

There was an old woman
Who lived in a shoe.
She had so many children
She didn’t know what to do.
So she gave them some broth,
Without any bread,
And spanked them all soundly
And sent them to bed!

Accompanying the poem was an illustration of a child lying over her lap with his pants pulled down so you could see his bare bum (his red bare bum!) with tears sprouting from his eyes as she spanked him. She was quite strong and had a strict look on her face. Some kids were heading into the shoe, holding their bottoms and crying, while others were lined up fearfully awaiting their spanking.

I was captivated and couldn’t look away from the image. I wanted to be involved! And I was: I played the requisite “House” and “Doctor” games with neighborhood kids and was always coming up with reasons why someone or other needed to be spanked- for medical reasons or otherwise.


2. Was it just a phase or did it continue?

Just like I was innately drawn to spanking, I believe I was “hard-wired” with an affinity to playing with power dynamics. I developed a melancholic streak and an attraction to violent drama very early on. This dark side of My nature manifested itself in BDSM fantasies where the roles of characters were very clearly defined by those who had power and those who did not. I drew My secret fantasies on paper and felt very passionately about their situations. These melodramas were enormously captivating to Me. One fantasy that I really loved to daydream about was imagining that there was a secret “Spanking room” in all homes –hidden by a rotating bookshelf- where people were punished. I loved imagining the ritual of people being scolded, made to undress and spanked. Oh the humiliation!

I also had fantasies involving kidnapping, sexual torment, medical play, and the requisite angry lover dramas. Essentially, My mind delighted in passionate, cruel and arrogant characters who broke with the rules of “normal” life.


3. Did you get to live out any of your fantasies aside from tricking the neighborhood kids into spankings?

I did. I found the classroom and school ground ripe with those who hadn’t yet discovered their submissive natures. One memory of a boy named Charlie stands out particularly. Charlie was a bully. He was always picking on the smaller kids in school, being physically abusive and generally obnoxious. I was raised with very strong female role models and wasn’t intimidated by what I thought was his big bluff. One day I stopped him from pounding on a little nerd and in response, he spat in My direction and dared Me to cross a line he’d drawn in the dirt. When I stepped across it immediately- he was taken aback (keep in mind that at 13 years old, I was six feet tall and strong)! Charlie and I made lame attempts to punch each other, and we ended up rolling around on the ground. I managed to mount him and hold him down and when I did, one of My elbows connected with his nose. He got freaked and started crying when his nose started to bleed and I told him that he’d better apologize to the kid he’d tried to hurt so I wouldn’t hurt him anymore. And so he did. He apologized and then turned tail and ran home.

From that day on, Charlie’s superior status as a bully had been lost and the tables aptly turned on him. I was always thinking of ways to get Charlie. In fact, My little friends and I used to set “Charlie-traps” where we’d ambush him and torment him. One of My favorite games was pouncing on him when he least expected it (kind of like Peter Sellers’ Asian housekeeper in “The Pink Panther”) and pummeling him, making him do silly things or just giving him a beating after wrestling him to the ground. I’d tease him by sucking spit in and out of My mouth over his face… sometimes I’d let it drop… other times not. One time I tied him to a tree with his pants pulled down while My girlfriends and I laughed at him (his parents weren’t very happy with Me). But it was all part of My grand plan to demoralize Charlie.

The interesting thing is… Charlie began to change. Far from abhorring the attention, Charlie began to accept his new found status as My little plaything. He began to be easier and easier to catch and always seemed to be walking home from school very slowly…


4). Did your teachers reprimand you for picking on Charlie?

No. In fact, the teachers seemed amused by this new turn around in attention he received. One teacher would even tell Me if she noticed that Charlie had done something rotten. And My homeroom teacher was a short man who got flustered when I stood by him (I was six feet tall at thirteen) -so he never tried to stop Me. In any case, I was a very good student and other than tormenting Charlie, was a bit of a teacher's pet.


5) Did you go to college?

Yes! I love school and have three degrees in separate fields: A BA in Criminology, an Associates in Applied Science and a BFA in painting. I’ll never give up going to school entirely and always endeavor to learn new things. I also love traveling and have been to all seven continents including Antarctica!


6) Kindly tell me about your name.

It’s pronounced “Sev-AIR-uh”. The root is “severe” and it’s Roman in origin.


7) Why do you capitalize “M”

It is proper etiquette for a Dominatrix to refer to Herself with capitalized possessive pronouns while slaves are always lower case- for example, “slave john is Mine”. It is considered extremely bad form to write to Me in cap locks or to refer to Me as “u”.


8) I noticed you were a professional athlete- in which sport?

I’ll give you a hint… it starts with a “B” and it’s not bowling!


9) How tall are you and what are your measurements and Ethnic background?
I’m 6’5” (194 cm) – and close to 7’ tall in heels!
My weight is between 180- 185 lbs.
Bust/waist/hips: 44 DDD, 31”, 40”
Biceps: 13”
Thighs: 23 ½”
Calves: 15 ½”
Inseam: 38 in.
Hands: pinky to thumb is 9 ½ in., long finger to end of hand is 8”
Shoe size: 12 wide or 13- depending on the make of the shoe.
Eyes: Green
Hair: naturally blond.
Background: Scandinavian and German descent.



10) What’s the favorite part of your body?

I like the unusually high arches of My feet- which look like abstract sculptures.



11) What’s it like to be so tall?

Wonderful. I’ve always felt very comfortable in My skin and particularly enjoy the power dynamic of towering over men. I never get tired of walking into crowded elevators or bars and having men look up at Me (one of those "shock and awe" things).



12) Have you always been interested in sports?

Always. Growing up, I was a competitive equestrian and later, a National team and pro-ball player. When I moved to New York City, I felt like something a little different and joined an internationally renowned Brazilian jiu-jitsu school. BJJ is submission style wrestling with evil and sneaky joint locks and chokes. It's intimidating and hard and is absolutely humbling, but once I tried it, I was a believer.

It’s been about five years now and I’m absolutely passionate about jiu-jitsu. BJJ is very technical and requires an understanding of leverage and weaknesses in the body. I train as much as I can- about five times a week in group classes with men and have attained the level of purple belt (it goes white, blue, purple, brown, black). I feel very proud of this accomplishment and endeavor to keep improving My skills.



13) Do you do competitive wrestling in sessions?

Regarding wrestling in sessions… wrestling in sessions is a bit different than wrestling in jiu-jitsu- which is a controlled environment. I do competitive wrestling all the time at My academy with people who know what they’re doing and who stop before they injure others. Competitively wrestling a man off the street doesn't compel Me. People who don’t know how to wrestle and who power out positions can be a real hazard: their knees, elbows and fists tend to be all over the place.

My preference is to leave the hyper-competitiveness at the academy and enjoy sessions with men who appreciate strong women. Ultimately, the bottom line with Me is respect – regardless of the activity.



14) So do you like wrestling in sessions then?

Love it! Wrestling is one of the quintessential forms of domination and is a perfect leeway to many other activities- such as scissors, role play, tickling, teasing, smothering, breath play, spanking, height comparisons, bondage, body worship, punching, kicking, ball-busting, stomach-punching, face-slapping, trash-talking, cross- dressing etc! First and foremost I love to have fun and I love wrestling because I enjoy using My body as the weapon of choice instead of relying on total submission and implements to do the trick. Before there was BDSM, there was wrestling. Wrestling is very primal and close to nature. With wrestling, I can actually physically make someone do something I wish instead of commanding him to do something- and to this day, that still gives Me a thrill.



15) When did you begin actively playing in the scene?

When I retired from pro-ball, I lived in Europe for a few years and developed My interests in the underground German, Amsterdam and London scenes. The British are uniquely pervy and uninhibited and I loved being a voyeur on their scenes. It was a real education in itself to discover all the different fetishes out there! I had always thought I was alone in My predilections and it was very empowering and gratifying to discover I wasn’t.



16) I noticed that you lived in New York City for ten years. How did that come about?

I had just returned from Europe and received a call from an agent I’d done some modeling for in L.A. He said that the “Maury Povich” show was doing a bit on opposite attractions and were looking for tall girls who liked short men. I actually dated a few short men in My time and had a friend in the city I wanted to visit, so I agreed to be a guest. I came to the Big Apple and it suited Me so well that I stayed for a decade!



17) How did you become involved in the BDSM scene there?

One day, I was thumbing through the phone book when I noticed a very intriguing ad about the “Taurel Institute”. The ad described a woman named Ava Taurel and described her as a counselor, educator and coach to people who wish to assert their personal and sexual persona whether it be for their own personal relationships or performance in the media.

 I called her up and told her a bit about Myself and asked whether She was looking for any new Dominas (after all, it seemed a perfect fit for My personality)! She said She wasn’t – and I said… “Did I mention I’m 6’5”?” She said, “What? You must be kidding Me!” And the rest is history. Ava took Me under Her wing and was My mentor and adoptive mother for the next ten years.

I cannot even begin to describe what an important and lucky turn in the road this was for Me. Ava was completely unique: the daughter of a Russian Prince, a former film star in Mexico, a journalist, a photographer, a director and a Dominatrix who lectured to audiences around the world. She began one of the first BDSM studios in New York and helped introduce the masses to this formerly taboo form of play.

Ava was brash and shameless and sophisticated and wonderful and asked impertinent questions about sex! She would talk to anybody and introduced Me to academics and poets and porn stars and directors and totally shaped My growth. She taught Me the right way to dominate and that “unless you are comfortable with who you are sexually, you will not be truly at ease in any other aspect of your life. Positive sexuality must be in harmony with the deeper part of yourself.”

Unfortunately, Ava died tragically in the spring of 2006 and it was a huge and sudden blow to all of those who knew Her. I feel very grateful to have met Her and hope that I can honor Her memory by carrying on the things She taught Me in sessions and life in general.



18) What are some of the other lessons that Ava Taurel taught you?

Ava was very serious about using the dynamics of power exchange to create a transformative experience that is not simply recreational, but above all, therapeutic and uplifting. Essentially, role play must be based on mutual respect and be pleasurable and growth oriented for both parties. When someone makes an appointment to meet Me, he must truly have something to offer Me that will make the experience enjoyable. I must connect with the individual and have an experience that I will love just as much as the other person! I definitely have My own boundaries and expect them to be honored- just as yours will be.

As time marches on, I have become firmer and firmer about this as My general philosophy of domination, and turn down plenty with whom I don’t feel a connection. I know Ava would be pleased to see that.



19) I noticed that you have just moved to San Diego. How did that move come about?

There's a saying that a person should "Live in New York City- but leave before it makes you hard, live in California, but leave before it makes you soft"! I love New York City. It's been a wonderful place for Me this past decade... however, ten years is a long time to be somewhere. I like to feel the winds of different places blow on My face and felt like the time had come to move on after Ava died and I graduated from school. Besides... I feel like in a sense I've "made it" in NYC: I've been on page six of The Post's gossip column, was in the catalog of the Sex Museum and have established Myself in the business enough so that I can travel or live anywhere that I like.

San Diego is the opposite of NYC: beautiful, quiet, sweet, friendly- and it provides respite from the hard grittiness of NYC which is very much "in your face". Here, I can go to the beach anytime I like, listen to birds... listen to silence!!! I've found a great new place to do Brazilian jiu-jitsu and am considering going to graduate school. Plus, I'm really looking forward to meeting a whole new crowd of kinksters! I've been out in the social scene here a bit - through "Club X", and everyone has been very warm and inviting. Nice!


20) How will new people know if their interests are compatible with yours?

I like to get to know people in depth prior to meeting, and have an application on the “Sessions” page of My website which prospective playmates must fill out. This questionnaire allows Me to ascertain whether our needs and interests are mutually compatible.



21) Any advice for people who're meeting you for the first time?
Be extraordinarily polite and think carefully about what you write Me.


22) What are some of your rules and things you don't do?

I refuse anything outside the realm of sane, safe and consensual and will not participate in any activity that is directly sexual or which is not sanctioned by specific State and federal laws. I do not tolerate drugs, alcohol or poppers- either prior to a session or during. I will not engage in mindless humiliation, or any activity which is not constructive. What I AM interested in, is seeing someone who is open minded and willing to take risks when he feels comfortable. I prefer clients 30 + years and older and they must understand that seeing Me in a session is not about how I can serve you- it’s about how you can serve Me. The premise of this is to honor the Goddess- and ultimately all women.



23) Do your subjects have to be submissives? What if they’re just “normal” guys who aren’t into any of that “whips and chains” stuff and simply like tall, strong women?

First of all, the stereotype of Dominatrixes being uniformly cruel is not based on reality. In order to understand individuals and to be able to relate to them, one must have something called empathy. More often that not, people just need a safe environment in which to express their desires. There’s a flip-side to being cruel- and that is kindness. The two mixed together are far more powerful than relentless sadism.
Secondly, I’m a versatile, multi-faceted person with many “normal” height worshiping friends. I love to have fun- whatever the fetish! However, bear in mind that, while a fellow may not be submissive, I do not tolerate “bossy bottoms” or people who expect Me to follow scripted scenes to the word. I’m open to the fantasies of others, but ultimately, am a dominant woman and expect a playmate to be mindful of his manners. Be forewarned that I am immovable when it comes to My boundaries. Filling out My application truthfully will assist in taking away the mystery of whether we’re compatible.



24) Why would you want to hurt people?

There is a big difference between pain which is sensual, and pain is hurtful. Context is everything. I’m a very caring individual. However, in the context of consensual adults engaged in BDSM, pain obviously has its place. Pain is corrective. Pain is healing. Pain is freeing. And pain is fun!! For clients who are into sensual pain, we have a detailed discussion prior to the discussion to discuss limits and normally establish a “safe word”.


25) Why would a nice, smart girl like you do something like this?

Who says I’m nice? I do this because this is what I really enjoy to do. Clearly, not everyone will understand what I do. There are many opportunities for others to misconstrue My world. However, for Me, I’ve always known it’s not so important how others view Me- but how I see Myself.


26) What would you do if you were independently wealthy?

Who says I’m not? Regardless of wealth, I would continue to do exactly what I am doing because, as I said, I’m hard-wired this way. This is who I am and what I enjoy.


27) Do you look down on Your submissives or people who come to see you?

At 6’5”, I regularly look down on everyone! But if you’re talking about judging people… no. Definitely not. I applaud submissives, fetishists, wrestlers and admirers alike who have the courage to explore and live out their fantasies. I really enjoy the company of men and in helping them fulfill needs that traditional relationships often make difficult to express. I feel it’s very important to achieve harmony between your fantasies and every-day life- with no feelings of guilt or shame. Playing this way can be healing and empowering. What could be better? It’s My personal and unique contribution to making the world a better place.


28) What are your facilities like?

I accept bookings out of Domina Angelina's amazing dungeon in San Diego! You can look it up at www.dungeonservitus.com. It's wonderful- I couldn't have equipped and decorated it better Myself and am thrilled to be there. It's fully equipped for all forms of play -BDSM, wrestling and otherwise, and of course, has a private bathroom and shower. It is upscale, private, discreet and impeccably clean.


29) What are some of your favorite sessions?

My favorite type of sessions aren’t contingent upon the activity -but on the person. I love it when My playmate totally gives in to the experience by committing to his role and trusting Me. When he does the scene can be transporting! I live for sessions like these.


30) What sort of fetish attire do you own?

Ever since I was a little (relatively) girl, I loved dressing up in costumes. Imagine how thrilled I am to still be able to dress up all the time! I have an extensive fetish wardrobe including pvc, rubber and leather. Everything you see Me wear in the member section of the site, is Mine and not borrowed for shoots. I have a plethora of corsets, waist cinchers, bras, skirts, dresses, business attire, lingerie and stockings- as well as a multitude of shoes, boots and much more. Whether you’re into a super hero, an evil spy, the girl next door or the traditional leather-clad Dominatrix, I have the outfit!


31) Are any of your clothes or personal items available for purchase?

Absolutely. You’re welcome to make Me an offer on any item of clothing you desire! I won’t always accept your offer- but you’re welcome to make it!


32) How would you describe your style?

I am polite and quietly confident- not someone who yells. However, I can and I will turn up the heat for any reason I deem necessary.



33) Do you ever become friends with your session playmates?
I prefer to develop an interpersonal relationship with My clients and am interested in getting to know them in depth! I’ve known some people for 10 years and longer and have explored a multitude of fantasies with them. However, first and foremost, I am a subversive therapist and as such, there are important boundaries. Do not expect that W/we will become bosom buddies or chat on the phone.


34) Do you ever travel for sessions?

I occasionally tour major cities around the U.S. and Europe to do sessions. (Kindly see My “Travel” section for details). On a very select and special request basis, I will come see you, provided that all travel, accommodation, time and related expenses are provided for. Please email Me with any travel requests and specify whether you are expressing interest in a session if/when I travel to your city or if you are interested in having Me visit on a “special request” basis.


35) Should I bring a gift for you when I see you in session?

A gift is always an effective way of demonstrating your sincerity and for establishing your credibility. I enjoy the Chanel fragrance called, “Allure”, the Nars lipstick called “Damage” candles, lotions, ancient Roman “Severa” coins, and gift certificates.


36) Can I send you gifts or fan letters in the mail even if I can’t see you in person?
Of course! My address is:
Severa Enterprises
315 South Coast Highway 101, #746
Suite U, Box 68
Encinitas, CA 92024


37) Can I join your site if I don’t have a credit card?
Yes. You can send a postal money order or cash to Me directly- see address above- or, in lieu of that, you can join via another location on the web. Email Me directly for specific information about this and about other questions not addressed at: GoddessSevera@yahoo.com.


38) Your pictures are tremendous. Who is your photographer?

Thank you! I have the occasional guest photographer, but My main photographer is Paul Colliton- and I feel very privileged to be working with him. Paul has photographed some big guns like Muhammed Ali, Bill Gates, Tom Waits and many other recognizable names and celebrities- including some infamous ones! He has a beautiful penthouse studio in the middle of Manhattan with a view of the city and the Empire State building- and we love shooting in and around it. Check out his website to learn more about him and get a bird’s eye view of the space: www.collitonstudio.com.

I AM looking for a photographer/videographer in San Diego- so if you know of someone talented and fetish-friendly, please let Me know!


39) Are you looking for new models to be in your shoots?

Constantly! If you’re an experienced, of age player, (no total novices please), I’m definitely interested. Kindly send Me a head shot and body shot as well as your subbing resume. Let Me know whom you’ve served before, your stat’s, whether you’re comfortable showing your face and appearing stark naked, where your interests and talents lie, what your limits are, if you have any acting experience etc. I’m really only interested in people who can totally commit to a shoot and who will sign an extensive model release as well as providing two copies of photo ID as required by law.


40) Do you have any favorite quotes?

The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars and in the middle you see the blue center light pop and everybody goes ‘Aww’.
Jack Kerouac

Thank you for taking the time to answer my many questions Goddess Severa

My pleasure! I hope to meet you for an in-person session one day- and until then, I welcome you to enjoy My member site!

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